If i am a US CITIZEN AND got arranged marriage to a guy from paki..?
he's been here almost two years and have a green card. and now its expiring and we have to file for another one.i feel like he mite leave me after getting citizenship in 4 or 5 years. has it ever happened to any of u or how can u stop it? l don't have a choice to leave. don't ask why. i just want to know options. i would appreciate it. i will listen too
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If he leaves let him go. Why would you want to be with someone who doesnt want to be with you?
Um why are your being arranged to a non citizen? Yes i do think he will leave you after he gets his citizenship.
well if you are a citizen and marry him he will be come a citizen too, sooner or later, but he should take the citizen test. well people marry people so they can stay in the us all the time
hon, you have choices... please think hard!
he he leaves ur screwed especially because your from pakistan and its strict rules and how people will look at you
Guess what? You're a US citizen, you do have a choice. Stop listening to your family. I know its tough, I know your culture is different. But it doesn't matter. You're not there, you're here. Move out, maybe far away, start your own life. You don't have to marry anyone you don't want to.
there are some things you did not mention, like did you sponsor him for the green card? do you love this person? people are going to do whatever they are going to do regardless of the situation. do you think he loves you? and 5 years is a long time to be with someone and perhaps if you guys are not in love now, you might be in the future, none the less you really need to talk it out and feel it out with this person. spending so much time worrying if someone is going to leave you is not healthy
Strongly suggest you get in touch with Legal Momentum's Immigrant Women Program http://www.legalmomentum.org/legalmoment... They will be familiar with the circumstances you describe (no, you are NOT alone - many just like you!) and able to put you in with a good self-help group for info and other resources in your area to help you come up with a strategy that's best for you.
Contact the Department of Immigration.
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