Semi adult question -tell me if i was wrong for saying this to him?
so i met this guy the other day and on the first date we start making out. which is fine..he's caressing my hand, kissing my neck blablabla...then he starts pressing his u know what on me to the point that i can feel it. now i never gave him indication that he can do this in any way..(we had our clothes on on his couch).i called him a perv for doing this.
i no longer want to see him again.
am i over reacting..was i wrong.
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totally overreacting. if he is making out with a hot person like you, what to keep him from getting excited.
no no no! you did the right thing! yucky.i'de do the same thing as you.so the right choice was made! cheers!
You were over reacting...that's what happens when I guy gets excited. It's not as if he was forcing sex on you. Calling him a prev is over the top. If you didn't want him holding you so close you could have just told him so...
if you think it was wrong than ya you were in good judgement
If you felt uncomfortable then yes you have every right to do so. He could even get in trouble legally for doing this. Anyways you did the right thing.
Stick with you're gut. But ask about it and see what he says. Maybe the fact you did'nt give in is what he wanted to know that you are the possible right one and not slutty. If he is sincere in his apologies maybe you can give him 1 more date just to see how it goes.
guys are always gonna try and take things to the next level, with the goal being SEX!! There's no such thing as "he just wants to sit and kiss me". He was just moving on to the next step, perhaps a little faster than you wanted. If you didn't want to go that far, you shouldn't have let him start kissing your neck. That's another step. now if you no longer want to see him again, fine. but be aware that if you keep up this behavior and stop it before "it" happens, you're gonna someday find yourself in a very bad situation. some guys are IDIOTS and don't deal with rejection well AT ALL! be careful who you go making out with and how far you let it go.
not really wrong but u prolly shoulda just told him 2 slow down u guys were makin out so he obviously knew ur in2 him an wanted 2 c how far he could take it
calling him a perv may have been a bit much but YOU HAVE A RIGHT TO STOP!!! Good for you!!
I think u should of just told him 2 stop!! He's probably a pretty decent guy!
if u felt better after callin him a jerk then no u weren't overeactin but if u have doubts in ya mind bout it then yes and apoligize
Ha, what are you a virgin? Loosen up a little! If you weren't ready for contact, than you can express that wihout insulting the other person, who wasn't doing anything wrong, or to hurt you, in his eyes! Thats kind of a part of human mating ritual, in case you were absent that day..=)
You say you met him recently, on the first date you are at his house making out on the sofa? You see, that was an indication to him that he could try to do more. He was seeing how far you were willing to go and how fast he could get there.
No, you weren't wrong. It's not wise to have sex with people you don't know well, you could get a disease. Actually, you could get a disease from making out with him. Ever hear of herpes? In the future perhaps you should maybe date (I mean really date, movies, parties with other people, whatever.) for let's say 10 or 20 times before you make out.
It is possible you under-reacted. The only thing you did wrong is question if you did anything wrong. Say no and move on. Before you get in the clutch of another boy get to know him. Find out if you can trust him. Keep this in mind in a decade or so when you are choosing a life mate. Do you want a cool a-hole or a nice guy you can depend on.
You've never been with a man before have you?
I think you could have just told him to stop what he was doing and that you wanted to slow down. But you never know, they always say stick with your gut.
i hope you are a kid writing this. that would explain why is sounds so stupid. if you are an adult writing this then you need to check youself into the nearest menatal hospital
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