Is this rape?
Last night, I got really drunk and this guy I half know took me into a room and we started making out.
Then he undid his belt and asked me to give him head. I didn't really want to so I started but then tried to come back up again, but he pushed my head down and said that I had to 'finish it off.' bearing in mind he knew fine well I was completely wasted.
Then we left because somebody came in and he started making out with one of my friends...
He's also older (16, when I'm 15.) Does this count as rape, since I didn't ever properly say no, and I could have run away if I'd really tried?
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Sounds like it might be attempted rape. It might also be statuatory rape given your age. Drunk at 15 though? The cops will just blow you off. Sorry to be harsh but it sounds like you're hanging around the wrong crowd anyway. To some degree, you're asking to get in trouble with this sort of behavior. You better learn to say NO - Loud and Clear! Or else this will probably happen to you again and next time who knows. Worse of all, you hardly know this guy - how do you know he doesn't have AIDS or something else. I know some girls that had this happen to them - you were lucky - This Time.
He forced you to continue, when you didn't want to. I would report him to the police
No, if you didn't want to do it you should have said something or left. Don't be afraid to speak up.
It depends on how he did your head. Did he force it or just guide it, b/c there is a difference.
The age of consent, in most states is 16, and since you are younger than that if it's reported to police it is considered statutory rape. At your age you can not legally consent to any sexual activity.
However I doubt given the circumstances of the incident that any AG would take the case to court.
It probably wouldn't fall under Rape, but if you were intoxicated, it would likely fall under Sexual Battery. Being inebriated often causes the court to consider the victim as being unable to consent, which would have made it forceful.
No is not rape.Stop getting drunk!
Where are your parents?
It was rape.
If you are intoxicated, you are unable to give consent. He knew what he was doing.
Also, you tried to stop and he made you continue.
You were raped. Even if you do not press charges, you need to talk to someone about it.
Actually, it's first degree unlawful sexual activity. #1 it's statutory rape because you're underage and you're younger. #2, more importantly, it's forcible because he forced your head back down.
you started?? that doesnt sound like no to me. why are you getting that drunk when you are 15? you need to take a look at where the hell your life is headed...and its not in the right direction. where the hell are your parents? do they know? do they care? where did you get the booze? lots of law breaking from what I can see.
Not rape but sexual abuse. If you are really having a hard time with it and feel he needs to be stopped you need to call the police. In the future .... if another boy does it to you in the future ... bite his penis then get help.
Yes it is. For the who cares guy, what an idiot you are. Yes I went to school and have a career that pays me well enough to be on the net all day. You on the other hand probably didn't from the sound of your oh so unintelligent answer!
Where were these parties when I was 16?
no it isn't rape, although you might get a few bleeding hearts on a jury to agree that it is. it sounds like what you are really a victim of is poor parenting. The next time you decide to start doing adult stuff like drinking and having sex before you are old enough to start doing those kind of things remember to bring along a little adult responsibility with you as well.
freedom = responsibility
YES, some kind of sexual assault. He forced himself on you, and you were 15, and drunk - legally incapable of consenting.
Please go to the police, and an emergency room for tests.
Please try not to get yourself in situations where this can happen. Just thank God it was not worse!
I pity any boy or man who would try this with a daughter of mine.
Good luck.
Technically, yes. It's statutory rape - and at your age you don't have to give consent - you are deemed unable to consent by proxy.
It is also illegal for you to drink. You were breaking the law. If you decide to report this incident - you will also have to drag everyone involved right along with you. Who supplied the alcohol? Who's house were you in? Where was the supervision? The adults who own the property you were on can be held liable for contributing to the delinquency of a minor.
Sounds like your embarrassed because you got caught bobbin the knob! You say "you didn't want to so we started", blew (yep)your lie out of the sky. Wanna go out tonight? NOT!!
report it. he was in the wrong. to split hairs it was probably sexual assault, not rape, as the was no vaginal penetration
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