Loved him, left him, but can't forget him. Now, what to do?
I loved him a lot, but then he lied about some things/habbits that he had promised to never do them. After he knew I was serious about those issues, he still lied. Then, logicaly, it did not make any sense to be in love with him. So I had to dumped him.
NOW, six, months later, I still remember him and miss him. At least, I spend an hour a day thinking about him. Now, this hearth is so hurt because I am holding it from loving him. This process is hard on me. What should I do? How to make it easy? Should I even try to make it easy on me? What not to do? If you were me what would you have done?
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There were reasons you loved this person, but there were other reasons he didn't deserve that love and those reasons were good. I think you saw your future with the lies and habits that were not the stuff dreams are made of. Your head really knows better than your heart right now and you will be glad you listened to it. Pray for the right person to come along and think of this as a step closer to finding happiness because you know what you want and what you don't want and do not settle for less. Your heart will be happier with someone worthy of you. Good luck.
i would have left him. you did the right thing.
you have to heal and move on.
there is only one thing to do ... find a replacement.
find a few replacements :-)
i suspect you are lonely ... just miss having the companionship which is normal. you deserve a better quality relationship than one you know is based on lies. the lies would have got worse / you would have found out more. instead you did the smart thing and cut your loses. all you need is a little time and a few diversions.
Good Luck
I think a lot of people have been there and done that with someone in their life. You were smart to get rid of him. You won't believe it now but in a few years you will look back and laugh at the whole thing. Get yourself involved in somethings you really have an interest in and sooner or later you will meet someone else that will be the love of your life.
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