Do you think it is right for my parents to keep my oldest son all the time,and never want our other two to,?
visit or spend the night?Why would they treat our other two children like they do not exist?
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Your oldest is obviously the favorite. It is wrong and I would tell them so. If they don't want to watch the other children, then the oldest should be off limits.
Yeah, it sucks, but you can't do anything legally. Maybe don't allow them to just take the one child unless the others come along, too.
Or write to Dear Abby.
No! It is wrong in so many ways. I would tell them they must treat them all the same and if they do not, you will not allow them to visit any of the children, including your oldest son.
I came from a large family and I can tell you that the problems that arise from unfair treatment between the siblings has lasting repercussions. It can affect the children for the rest of their lives. The oldest because he feels superior and feels he is entitled to whatever he wants. The younger ones may have inferiority problems because of your parents actions. They may not have the faith in themselves to go to college or seek leadership roles. It really can affect their lives in many negative ways!
Oh yes! I don't know how old your children are, but sooner or later the two that seem to be shunned by your parents are going to notice and wonder why they are loved as much as your other child.
I would stop letting your parents spend so much time with your one child if they cannot spend the same amount of time with the other two.
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