What do judges look for in fathers for custody cases?
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In all states in the US, judges view custody cases from the standpoint of what is in the best interest of the child. Most states do define what that concept means and what the judge should look for. You may want to do an Internet search on 'your state + best interest of the child + laws" and see if something comes up.
Generally the judges look at the relationship between the child and the father. What role did the father take in raising the child, from day one. Has the mom been the sole caretaker or did the father participate (equal on changing diapers, taking child to doctor, going to child's school) Is the father financially able to care for the child. How stable is the father's job, does the father make sufficient funds to care for the child. What type of housing will the father provide. (a bachelor pad may not be the best place). Does the father have appropriate supervision of the child when he is at work. (nanny, baby sitter, grand-parents) Does the father's job take him out of town for long periods of time. Is the father willing to sacrifice his own social/private life for his child. (judges normally do not like unmarried people living together)
If the child is of a certain age, depending on the state, the judge may even ask the child who he/she wants to live with.
You need to prove you will provide a stable loving home for the child. The judge will look at your work history, your relationship with the child, your ability to care for the child full time. More fathers are getting custody because the courts finally realize that moms arent always the best parent. If your ex falsely accused you of sex abuse of your child(your previous question) then that will go against her in court. She will have to explain her reason for doing it, and also why she left with your child in the middle of proceedings.
My husband has custody of his daughter. I am in the process now of adopting her. Its very possible that you can gain custody. Goodluck!
The same thing he looks for in mothers - that the parent is involved in the child's life. Meaning, helping dress, bathing, meals, doctors appointments, dentist appointments, extra activities, homework, bed time - a child is 24/7. If you do not have physical custody (currently), you can and should be involved. Going to parent/teacher conferences, if the child is old enough. Know the friends, and the parents of the friends. Favorite colors, toys, likes, dislikes, etc. Good Luck.
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