How is being depoloy in kuwait is from drinking to your spouse possible cheating?
just wanted to know my girlfriend being deploy to kuwait and was wondering what is the chances of drinking beer there or someone cheating in kuwait any advice and suggestions.this is a 15 month deployment
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umm. i think it is goin to be harder for you. first of all, she is in kuwait.ummm on duty? so the chances of her doing something like that is not impossible but rahter much less than you. come on nopw, she's fighting for the coutnry and you are here at home sitting down and to tell you the truth, you may suffer from temptation much more than her. dont worry. be happy and trust her
Magic 8 ball says:
"Ask yourself"
U don't wanna hear my answer but I've had bad experience with cheating women, so.
P.S. I was thinking about this and had to come back to tell you that personally I can't see how she would NOT cheat. 15 months? And you aren't even married? Why not just break up, if it's meant to be you could get back together when she returns. Also if this is her career then it's not the only time you're going to go through this. Why stay with someone who chooses a career like that? Finally, in my opinion, most women can be convinced to do anything by the right guy, drunk or not. Sorry, dude, I gave you my honest opinion this time 'round! Just cut your losses.
P.P.S: I asked the magic 8 ball again, if she will cheat, and it said "signs point to good chance"
She will be fighting for her life. Don't worry if she has a beer or not, and if you and she are in a committed relationship, there is no reason to think that she will cheat. Talk to her about your concerns and let her know that YOU will be faithful to her, and that you have confidence in her as well. Be supportive, she is not going on a 15 month long vacation. She will be living in very difficult circumstances and will need all the love and support you can give her, not suspicion or accusations.
Um...obviously none of you have been in the military yourselves. I have, there's a little saying we have in the military: "What goes TDY, stays TDY" (TDY being a temporary duty). Hopefully the bond of your relationship is strong enough to see you through 15 months, but trust me...when you're over there and especially because of the fact that you're in unusually stressful situations, sometimes a little one-on-one companionship is something to look forward to and people have taken advantage of any situations which present themselves over there. Best of luck to you.
My husband is deployed there as well and you shouldn't worry about that, Islamic Law prohibits alcohol in Kuwait. Cheating that depends on the person, there are a few "persons" that have so I guess it depends on whether she is faithful and committed. Hope this helps!
So far you have been given bad advise from almost everyone that has answered your questions. You poor man. The one gentlemen was right about the "what goes tdy stays tdy", but I am sorry that he told you that. Shame on him. That is not something you should have been told; just experiencing your first deployment. At any rate, I believe if you trust her than trust her. As far as the drinking goes. There is none allowed, my husband is in Iraq (2nd time) and it is dry (no drinking at all, none provided). These men and women are fighting for there lives, don't need anybody being stupid do we. So sleep well my friend. And please don't take advise from people that have "no clue".
Kuwait like Iraq is a dry country. That means that there is no drinking allowed. I don't agree about "what goes on deployment stays on deployment" statements. The truth always has a way of getting back. I know because this is how I found out about my 1st husband while he was in Spain, and Guam. I do have to say though that the first deployment is always the hardest. I ahve been through 15 of them three to the desert in as many years. If you trust her then there is nothing to worry about. If you do not trust her then I think that you need to rethink your relationship with her. Good luck
I think the fact that you're even asking this question says a lot about your relationship. There doesn't seem to be a lot of trust. Whether that's because she's given you reasons not to trust her or because you are an insecure person, I do not know. I do know that without trust a relationship has little chance of surviving. i agree with another answerer...you should be honest about your fears and talk to your girlfriend. I also think you should really try to figure out just why it is that you don't trust her.
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