Have you ever seeked revenge, if so how & why?
I was once arrested & prosecuted for scratching a car, the person actually told the police they saw me bend down at thier car and scratched it. I did no such thing but after 7hrs I said i did it so i could go home, big mistake. I got 200hrs community service. 10 years later, i smashed thier windows. ha ha ha ha
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ya so my mom's x-boyfriend was constantly taking her mail and opening it, letters, packages, whatever. He finally took something that made my mom really mad. (Montana silver money clip). He said he didn't take it but the tracking number had it delivered to the door. So I found out that you can buy dog crap on eBay and have it sent to anyone you want to. So my mom sent herself some actually ****. He got the package which was addressed to her and of course opened it. We had the crap wrapped up really tight so that he would really have to work at getting it undone. Inside there was a little card that said "I told you to quit opening my ****"!!
guess that's maybe why he's her X now!
I seeked revenge on a toilet
My dad hit me on my birthday and I fell down the stairs. To be fair I had broken down the bathroom sink having climbed onto it to look at my new necklace.
So I cleaned the toilet with his toothbrush whilst he was at work.then scared myself silly cos he got Flu and nearly died!!
Sometimes its better to just punch a pillow!
revenge has a habit of coming back on you
There's no statute of limitations for my revenge.
TEN YEARS? YOU LET THAT FESTER FOR TEN YEARS?
No.
When I get really angry, I write a letter to The Times.
All the time you spend trying to get even is time that you could have spent getting ahead.
Do you really feel better for having smashed their window?
I did want revenge when someone,or some people ,dont know, smashed the window of my families car.Glass got on my babies car seat.They tried to steal the car ,the egnition was broken they broke it .I wanted revenge cause I never did any thing to anyone to deserve that nor my family, especialy not my little baby!!yeah revenge would be nice!
What goes around, comes around. You needn't administer the punishment or seek revenge. You don't even have to sit and wait, just get on with your own thing and don't sink to the low level of others.
It's tempting at times, but you're a better person than that, we know.
i would have loved to get revenge on my sons girlfriend but i just had to wait and she dropped herself right in it my son was in the army and she got hold of my sons bank card and everytime his pay went into the bank she with drew all his money over 12 months she did him out of 12000 pounds but they caught up with her
well they would never a thought it was you for one minute.
many years ago my sister told the police i stole her car i was 15. i never stole it and knew nothing about it.
so a few weeks later i broke into her car and stole a camera i sold the camera for 10 quid to a second hand shop and was pleased i had money to buy a case of beer.
i got away with it but then found out this camera was worth over 200 quid i was gutted
o yeah,
back in 8th grade, this kid grabbed my throat and choked me, i was too stunned to do anything so i just froze while he choked me and punched me until finally a friend came over and got him off of me, so over the summer i did nothing but work out and exercise and in 9th grade i annoyed him to the point were it pissed him off enough to do somthing, and during our free study hall time, i was down in the lunchroom getting some coffee, he came up and punched me, i turned around punched him back and slammed his head into a table.
it was totally worth the suspension for 2 reasons
1. he made me look like a fool in 8th, i made him look like a fool to every1 in the highschool
2. i was pissed off and that was good anger release
i get revenge alot, but this one is my favorite
I'm not grassing myself up, but you've got the right idea
It's interesting. I want to do revenge, but I don't. It's not good at all. I have participated in revenge and I realize it's not something I would want to do. I think when someone do harm to you. someone else will get them, because they do bad things to many people. It's a habit of theres. revenge makes that person feel good at that moment. It's like walking away from a fight. You will be the bigger person if you just leave it alone. That's the level in life that gives you inner peace.
An ex of mine about 10 years ago owed me about $500 and was lagging behind in paying up even though I kept asking for the money as I needed it. I plotted to 'fix' his car so that it would break down (I used to work for a dealership as a parts consultant and knew some very expensive ways to wreck an engine!), but the day before I was going to do it, he called round with the money. Good job really, 'cos being young and stupid, wrecking his car might have felt good, but I would never have seen my money then would I!?
Other than that, about 14 years ago, my mum cut all of my dads sports clothes into shreds, hung some back up and left some lying on the bed. He knew he deserved it though and just put them in the bin. Now on the rare occasions that he annoys her, she puts about 10 sugars in his tea, but again he just calmly drinks it as doesn't want to risk the wrath of my mum 'cos 99% of the time she's right! Hmm I wonder who I take after? Now, my revenge is trying to be better than everyone else. I work really hard to be the best at everything I put my mind to, primarily because it makes me feel better to know that I've achieved something good, but at the same time, when someone is horrible to me, I know that chances are they can never attain these goals and I am better than them. There is much more to it on a personal level than that, but that is a summary!
Oh yeah, forgot to add that it's not good to take revenge. It's better to remain the 'better' person and move on with life. I fully understand where you're coming from though! But think about it, 10 years it took you to get revenge, that's 10 years of dwelling on the same subject.
I have always wanted to get revenge...I am one of those people that just stand out.and so make an easy target...and I stick my neck out to try to acheive.so I have come up against it in my time.
However...I have never actually done a "revenge"...in the end I have never needed to..My children...now grown up...cringe when any one does anything wrong or unkind against me...they say ..."oh no...don't cross our mum...no good will come of it" for they have seen what has happened to those people over the years...
You would not believe the bad fortune any one who has done something bad has had...unbelievable...
so my advice is to let the force of the planets energy do its work...you just have to believe that you reap what you sow...then sit back and watch the fun...
The other day I had to go to the council to check on some old planning permissions on my property...20 years ago I built an extension.all legal...all stamped etc etc...
there was a letter from one of my neighbours saying that I was doing work on my house...and for no reason at all.they wanted the council to stop me...Oh my God...at the time that old couple were lonely and sad and house bound...I was the only neighbour to bother with them, shopping for them, taking my babies to see them. and showing them much kindness ...they were split up and put into seperate homes ans left to die miserably...which I fought against...but could no nothing abot.20 years later I find that behind my back they were trying to cause me trouble.as my kids say "don't cross mum",,,,
My daughter was bullied relentlessly by the village bully...a nasty piece of work...I managed to protect her...a few years later she met up with this girl...in the lavatory.of a night club..the bully apologised, my daughter asked why she had been so cruel and mean...she answered "because I could"...my daughter burst into tears...my younger daughter walked in and found her older sister crying with the bully in the toilets...so no questions...she had had enough over the years...and gave the bully a good slap.just when she had said sorry...
they came home and told me...I hate violence...but I could not help but see the funny side.
All you have to do to get revenge is to be happy yourself then ask the World to play fair .then watch how miserable the bad people become.dig down,...don't look at the surface...see how unhappy these people really are...GOOD LUCK .and keep your eyes peeled..it works
It's part of my every day routine!!
Last night I had a long "conversation" with my soon to be ex boyfriend: We argued about some phone calls he denied making so i set up a recording cam and heard everything that sh**head said that week. I heard him taking about calling up some girls and stuff...so, i plan on finding that girl today @9am California time ( i know where she works now) and going to his work so we will both confront him and hopefully get him fired! If he denies it again, i will play the recordings @ his work! I don't know if he cheated, but if that girl tells me otherwise, I'm going to scratch HIS face off! I will be doing this because i have the right to know. I hate the fact that i stooped so low in spying on him, but i would have never found out otherwise...i have been with him for a year now and he broke my heart with those phn calls ( i have forgiven him 3 times or more before). Who knows what he did physically..payback is a *****!
there is a spelling checker on here, seeked?? the word in this instance is, sought.
haha! that is quite a funny story apart from doing 200 hours of Community Service. i have seeked Revenge nothing like that though. i use to do it with my sister(we dont get along) I dont think seeking Revenge is right, you are just making yourself as bad as the other person.
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