Long time friend still owes me money, should I take him to small claims court?
We've been friends for a long, long time, the only time when we weren't close is for a couple years when he moved out of state for a job. Anyway, I recently found out he was making fun of me behind my back, and not only that, he still owes me 15 bucks I lent him a month ago.
However, I have a bit of dirt on him. Before he got married, he slept with a couple prostitutes in Nevada. One night, I played on the insecurities of his wife and told her all about it. She got so upset, and then we got drunk; I got to 3rd base with her but not all the way, so I didn't feel too guilty. The next day, she kicked him out of the house and he is forced to live with his parents. He is also in big trouble at his job for missing so many days, and the whole office knows about it!
All I did was tell his wife the TRUTH. So my question is, why is he now mad at me when he is a liar and also I now understand doesn't orally please his wife (she told me when drunk). I'm also mad he never paid me back my money.
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You are incredibly disgusting as a friend and as a human being.
If these are all lies, you're childish and immature.
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All of this over 15 dollars...man, you are a harcore asshole! Just forget about it and get on with your life.
If you have to ask..
Its obvious it was not your place to tell her. And the fact that you had the nerve to do that to your "friend's" wife proves your ethic standing. What happens in their marriage has nothing to do with you whatsoever. The fact that she believed you and you took advantage of her in her pain also says a lot about your character as well. Either way, at this point, you may want to forget about the money since it would cost you about $50 or so to file the cliaim. OR take him to a televised judge show. That would make for some good ratings.
It shoudn't all happen for 15 bucks dude. Sometimes telling the truth is not always the right thing. He should tell his wife about it, not you. You are only his friend, not boyfriend. I do not uderstand why you cared about him breaking up with his wife. And he owes you only $15 bucks because he is your friend? Dude common, you are not his friend. Neither he should be your friend!
seriously, what the hell...there are so many things wrong with this, I dont know where to begin.
But I do have to say, this would be one hilarious case on Judge Judy...
Let him go..
It sounds like you weren't very good friends to begin with.
When people do you wrong, let them go. What they do to themselves in the long run is far worse than anything that you could ever legally do to them yourself.
Dude, c'mon .. bro's don't do this to one another. Sit him down and talk to him about his talking behind your back. Also ask him for the 15 bucks at that time.
Otherwise, drop it ... 15 bucks in not worth giving up a long term friendship. You may need him someday.
1. I think he's had his fill of recent bad times.
2. Prostitutes, wife cheated on him with you, kicked out, living with parents, bad time at job...do things get worse for this guy?
3. Does $15 really matter enough to pay $75+ in court fees?
4. If he was a long time friend is it worth it to forgive and restore?
5. When all else fails, place yourself in the shoes of others and ask whether you would like someone to do that to you.
If he never-ever gave you back the money,just breakup with
him. You don't have to go to court over 15$.
first of all, about the small claims court, its 15 dollars, how can anyone be so cheap
also, how can your friend not be mad at you? most people would kill you if you touched their wife, clearly you too arent very good friends, or at least you arent at all
Your best bet would definitely be to kill yourself immediately
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